Life is too small to be taken for granted! In our early years, we push ourselves to unreasonable limits and regret the same in the later decades of our life! Here are some important life lessons that you should master before life forces you to do so..
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It's never too late to start over
When we are young, society sets us up to expect to get things right the first time and over some time, we start expecting the same thing from ourselves and people around us. We feel unnecessary pressure for ourselves and our peers! Peer pressure is often unintentionally created by us and those around us. Trust me, we're all suffering from it. Accepting failed attempts and being normal about it will not only save you but your friends and family from the fear that grips us every time you start over.
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Nothing can buy happiness
So long as you wait for something to make you happy- that paycheck, that ring, or anything- you won't be happy! How can you be? Firstly, happiness is something you feel from inside- as cliche as it sounds, nothing is capable of filling the void inside of your heart! Money, gifts, and relationships can make you feel good for a while. But right after a moment of happiness, there will be another thing you'll wait to get before you can feel happy again. Happiness is a state of mind and nothing can induce it except yourself. This is one of the most important life lessons you need to grasp today!
3.Nothing lasts forever
Don't expect anything- a relationship, a friendship, a source of income- anything to last forever! It's not practically possible. Trust life to provide you exactly what you need when you need it. But, here's the catch- you may not always want what you need! That break up probably brought you closer to your life purpose, doesn't that make it something you needed at that time! We often observe this lesson in retrospection. If you trust your life beforehand, it will save you lots of tears!
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Everyone is imperfectly perfect
No one around you is perfect! Your friends, family, colleagues are all full of flaws- and so are you! We all are ultimately humans with our own perspectives we live in. We make all our choices, judgements, and decisions based on our perspectives! We are all unique, and with all our flaws- imperfectly perfect! That doesn't make one better than anyone else, your uniqueness doesn't make you better or worse than anyone else! You are who you are and you should be proud of yourself anyway! Even if you have some habit/ addiction/ self-destructive tendency that you need to work on, there are still plenty of ways to do that without harming yourself.
5. Learn to love yourself
Before you try to find your soulmate, you need to love yourself enough to figure out what you want in a partner. Don't go willy nilly into any relationship- the outcome will be disastrous. Figure out who your ideal partner is, your love language and your needs before you fall in love with someone else.
You will find plenty of people who will love you, but people can only love you the way they know how to. Before you judge if a particular partner is good for you, you need to know if they know how to love you the way you want to be loved.
That's it! Here's all I have for you today!
Hope you will learn, understand and implement these important life lessons and see for yourself just how powerful these are!